Elias' Favorite Books - 21 months

I wrote a post recently about the books Elias loved from birth to 20 months. Recently, I am learning from his day care providers K&J that he is able to sit through longer and longer books. This has opened a HUGE door for us, expanding our library significantly. We have a lot of books, and recently I purchased almost 45 new books! Yes, that sounds absolutely crazy. I want my kids to love to read and I don't mind spending money to develop good habits and provide some good parent-child time. And perhaps I am also compensating (or overcompensating) for the fact that my parents didn't read to me at all because they didn't know how to read in English (and they didn't have access to Polish children's books).

When K&J told me he's sitting through longer books, that day I ordered 15 Berenstain Bears and Franklin the Turtle books on Amazon. I used my Amazon credit card points for most of the purchase, but still paid $30. Not terrible, especially since I got over half the books the NEXT DAY! Yay for Amazon Prime!

A few days later I told K&J about my purchase and K sorta laughed asking why I didn't just go to the Friends of the Library bookstore?

I really had no good answer. Ummm... first time mom over here! Got a little too excited about lots of new books ... And Amazon Prime is just so easy. The books were new. I got to read reviews. I did this all from my phone without going any where.

And then the guilt hit me. What had I done?! I've been trying to be thrifty lately (combination of trying to save money for a new car and trying principles from the FIRE movement), and I hadn't even given this purchase a second thought. I thought it was a good thing to buy books. They're for my kids after all!

And so on Tuesday I HAD TO CHECK OUT the Friends of the Library bookstore. I ended up spending another $50 there getting almost 30 books! Crazy, yes. But lots of books for reading were gained. I walked these books back a whole mile to my office too. It felt like I did a book binge during my lunch break, sneaking out of the office at 11:30am like some sort of addict. I got Curious George books, more Berenstain Bears, more Franklin, a few Eric Carle books especially this anthology, a Sesame Street Anthology, and 4 Madeline books for Zoe. I felt so accomplished and in love with all the reading we'll be doing.

So, here's to expanding our library and to many many story times.

Our Minimalist Diaper Bag- Simple JanSport Backpack

Meet our diaper bag! We use and LOVE my old JanSport Backpack as our diaper bag for two kids under two. We didn't start with this, but after one year of messy pockets and losing items in traditional diaper bags, we decided this is the diaper bag that works for us. We are not minimalists, and I love how this diaper bag encourages us to cut down on the stuff that accumulates in a diaper bag.

Shopping for a diaper bag was quite a challenge when I was pregnant. I decided to go practical with my choice of a grey backpack with two main compartments, a changing pad, bottle holders, wipe holder, insulated pockets, lots of other pockets, stroller straps and more! It was highly reviewed on Amazon and after much debate I thought this backpack had it all, so I added it to my registry.

And boy do I regret it. What a waste of $50 (yes, a gift, but still!) for the HapTim Multi-function Large Baby Diaper Bag Backpack.

The backpack is HUGE, even with nothing in it. It's shape feels like I am carrying a box on my back. And all the pockets I thought I'd love were hellish -- I couldn't find a thing because things get trapped in the pockets. Even recently when I was re-cleaning out the backpack I found wipes, burp clothes, extra diapers and other randoms things in the pockets! Not to mention all the pockets look similar so it is hard to remember what goes where, and it makes it difficult to share this backpack with another caretaker (like my husband).

Thankfully, I had bought another backpack at a consignment sale at 3 months after baby #1. I got the J.J. Cole Caprice Diaper Bag, Large Capacity Tote (similar pattern). At first I LOVED this diaper bag. It had four pockets on the inside, bottle pockets on the two outside sides, and a smaller wallet like pocket on the outside. I used it mainly as a tote and my husband used the messenger bag strap. It met our needs fine, but the more I used it, the more the inside was just one large mess. Things would get lost in the four interior pockets so easily. Each time this happened, the pocket contents were dumped out in order to locate the needed item. It was hard to put things back in the pockets because these pockets were in such similar positions that it was hard to remember what belonged in which pocket.This lead to one large mess in the main section of the bag, and it drove me NUTS organizing this tote daily.

HapTim Backpack and J.J. Cole Tote Diaper Bags

This is when I decided to streamline our diaper bag. I knew I liked the backpack option, and I knew I needed Ziploc bags to store the items I'd normally store in the pockets. Ziplocs had the advantage of being see through and could be easily categorized! I got my high school JanSport backpack out, and that became our diaper bag. It was lightweight and had two pockets, minimizing our biggest problem of things getting lost.

In the small pocket I store: sanitizing hand wipes, hand sanitizer (I'm thinking of removing this soon), tissues, a bib, lip balm, mother's milk tea, and Elias' Avi-Q Epi Pen.

In the main pocket I keep: Elias' puffy winter coat (which is not car seat safe), a Ziploc with a change of clothes (short sleeve, long sleeve and pants), a changing pad, a second Ziploc with 4 diapers in each size (Size 5 for Elias and size 2 for Zoe), and a smaller Ziploc with wipes. I generally use a separate insulated lunch bag to transport food/snacks and drinks.

Zoe Lately - 5 month update

Zoe is such a smiley and happy baby. She gives the best smiles after waking. She has so much hair and looks 100% like a girl to me, even when she's wearing her brother's old clothes. Her hair is starting to curl at the ends, and it's SO cute!

She has started holding her head up super well and can now be placed in her standing toy and Bumbo 🙏 This makes life SO much easier. Laying her on her back all the time was starting to get boring for her and with her reflux issues (which were exacerbated when she was on antibiotics over December and January) having her upright after feedings is best. Her favorite position, though, is being held facing forward.

Before getting sick (she had a cold or two, then RSV when she needed two nights in the hospital due to breathing issues) she was sleeping super well, only waking once around 3am. During December and January she was sick on and off, and this was terrible on her sleep. She woke every 2 hours, and due to her reflux, needed to be upright for 20-30 minutes after eating. Some time after she started feeling better, and her reflux was getting milder again we started to shift her from the swaddle to sleepsack (we went from the Miracle Blanket swaddle to the Halo swaddle size newborn to the Halo swaddle size small, Halo swaddle with one arm out, then Halo swaddle with two arms out, then sleepsack size small). Once she was adjusted to the sleepsack, we moved her to the crib in her room, and returned the Halo Bassinet (we LOVED it for both Elias and Zoe!) to our friends. During these adjustments, I got very little rest. Now that she's recovered, she's sleeping much better, going to bed at 6:15pm (and fully sleeping around 7:30pm) waking at midnight or so, around 4am and then is up for the day at 6am. This is very early for us. We've started switching off who gets morning duty. When it's our turn, we brew a pot of coffee. And that's how I've started drinking coffee again, a habit I broke almost two years ago!

Back to Zoe. She LOVES her brother so much. She loves to watch him play, run around, sing songs, dance and eat. Really, she likes to watch anyone eat with her eyes getting big and wide. On the days I am home with her, she definitely misses her brother while he's in day care. I know because she's pretty fussy like she wants more interaction, and on the weekends the void is filled when she can watch him all day long. He loves her too, and has recently started giving her hugs and kisses. It's the most adorable thing to watch.

Elias and Zoe last week

She loves looking in the mirror, and laughs when you make silly noises or move her back and forth. She loves her changing table and the accompanying mobile. She kicks her heels so hard into the changing pad in order to move the mobile and it works! She hates tummy time, but honestly we (I) don't make her do too much of that because she's getting good neck strength from being held all the time, and now the standing toy and Bumbo. I need to have her do more tummy time so she can practice rolling, I suppose...

She is very interested in toys, and will reach to grab most things and put them in her mouth. She can't hold onto them long though, and often prefers to have her fingers in her mouth instead. Her hands are usually cold because she sucks on them all day long. She's also a drooler, like her brother. We go through 5-10 bibs a day!

Music is also big for her. She loves Beethoven's Fur Elise, Paramore, the Eagles and Foo Fighters. She loves for you to sing "Patty Cake" and "Itsy Bitsy Spider" while doing all the hand motions and giving her tiny tickles. If she is fussing, it's usually because she has to burp, or she's bored in the position/activity. She loves for you to walk her around the house.

She is eating well. We are breastfeeding every 2-3 hours and then giving her a 7oz bottle of breast milk at bed time (with a breastfeeding top-off), and a 6oz bottle of breast milk at midnight (sometimes with a breastfeeding top-off).

I kept pushing off her 4 month pictures (oops!) and finally got around to them yesterday. Better late than never!

December and January

No posts from December and January because we were all sick.

Elias' Favorite: Music Time

Elias is almost 20 months old and LOVES to sing songs and dance. At daycare, his providers J and K say he LOVES music time. Some favorites moments, songs and dances include:

• Before age 1, he loved to listen to us sing or play: Baby Beluga and Wheels on the Bus
• Today, Elias' number one request is "E-I-E-I-O" (which for the longest time he called "EEYahYo"). This request has many meanings and interpretations such as:
• Show me videos of nursery rhymes/songs on YouTube on your phone (he asks anyone he knows has a phone, especially Grandpa!)
• Play kids music (Raffi, etc)
• Play the song "Old McDonald"
• Sing "Old McDonald"
• He requests "Row Row" AKA Row, Row, Row your boat. He especially loves the second verse: "when you see a crocodile, don't forget to scream" which is when he likes to let out a scream. Though sometimes he screams after the first verse too. It varies.
• He can sing the WHOLE happy birthday song by himself and often sings it in the car or when he's falling asleep
• He can sing all of "Twinkle Twinkle" in key. He gets that from his dad! 
• He can sing the whole alphabet song!!! This was his FIRST favorite song. When he started at daycare, he loved having me or J&K point to the letters on a banner as we sang the song multiple times in a row. We immediately purchased an alphabet banner that we hung in the playroom.
• Loves to dance to "Let it Go" (with a twirl with hands above his head) from the Disney movie Frozen. He learned this from the older girls at daycare and is too young to think this is girly.
• Loves "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes" but mostly touches his toes. 
• Has been requesting "Rosey, Ashes" AKA "Ring Around the Rosey" all weekend recently (did you know: this song is about the Black Plague!)
• Has specific dances for his musical toys:
• Loves to flip the "light" on his table toy to play a song "turn the light on and off, and the switch goes up and down ...." as he does a specific stomping dance
• Loves to sway dance to the alphabet song on his table toy
• Loves to play his piano and xylophone
• Loves the "Cocomelon" (ABCKidsTV) and "SuperSimpleSongs" channels on YouTube

 Elias and his piano at 15 months

Elias with his Great-Grandmother, Grammy, playing piano at 17 months

Elias' favorite books, birth to 20 months

Elias LOVES books! When he was less than one year old, he loved to carry his books around between his room and the living room, and chew the pages and spines. We gave him access to board books only because he was too rough with the pages of other books. You can tell which books were his favorites based on the wear of the pages and spine.

At around age 1, he was interested in reading only his favorite books:

• Pom Pom Panda Get the Grumps (he is still obsessed with this book a year later! He loves the page that says "GO AWAY!")
• Pout Pout Fish
• Dear Zoo
• Five Little Monkeys
• B is for Bear
• Touch and Feel Pets
• Touch and Feel Farm

Since he started daycare at age 13 months, his focus on books improved, and he was more willing to branch out to new books. Credit to story time at daycare! Then at around 18 months he started to LOVE listening to stories, especially at bedtime. It was around this time that we allowed him to read/play with some non-board books too. He still loves to play with his books, pretend read them upside down, and carry them between his room and the living room. The living room always winds up with a huge pile of books that I bring back to his room. He now begs for us to read him more books (probably because he doesn't want to go to bed). There are few books he doesn't like. His favorites include:

• all the above
• Good Night Moon (he was obsessed with this book for a while and it became a nightly staple)
• Touch and Feel Halloween (he loves the "sticky" page)
• Where is Baby's Belly Button 
• Baby Faces
• Growl Growl
• Good Morning, Good Night
• Bedtime Peekaboo
• Fuzzy Yellow Ducklings (he LOVES ducks and animals in general)
• The Little Engine that Could
• Brown Bear, Brown Bear
• The Hungry Caterpillar
• Chicka Chicka Boom Boom 
• Hello World! Weather
• Doggies 
• Moo Baa Lalala 
• The Busy Spider
• Animal Tales

Elias at 17 months with his favorite book

Was it a stomach bug?

Elias threw up for the first time last night. He's had a cough and no fever for the last 2 weeks. For young kids like him (almost 18 months) you are not allowed to give cough medicine, so we were just hoping and waiting for the cough to go away. But it didn't. Instead, it was getting worse because it bothered him more and more at night. So much that's he'd wake and cry, and yesterday he even had trouble falling asleep.

Instead of traditional cough syrup there is a natural children's brand called Zarbees. It's made with agave for babies under 1 and honey for children over age 1 (kids under age 1 cannot have honey because of a risk of botulism), and other herbs. We ran out for his stuff at bedtime and he only got half a serving. We didn't go to get any right away thinking we'd be fine if my husband got it during lunch the next day.

But Elias had a different plan. He couldn't fall asleep and kept coughing and stirring and crying on and off. We didn't know what to do. We went into his room and gave him warm water with honey, but he didn't want it. Then I tried mixing breastmilk with regular milk. He also didn't want it. At that point it was 10:30pm. My husband left for CVS and I cuddled with Elias in his rocking chair, the whole time thinking how are we going to manage to give him this herbal "medicine" he hates! He hates all medicine, actually, and it's quite a feat to get him to take any. I ordered a sippy cup that allows you to add medicine to a hidden compartment and squeeze packets of the Zarbees anticipating this, but those weren't set to arrive until Friday evening, two nights away!

We gave him his medicine in a huge bout of resistance where I held down his arms and legs with him on my lap and my husband holding the syringe. Then we held him down on the changing table while we worked as a team to saline and nose frida him. I went to bed just as Zoe was waking likely because of all the commotion (crying). We felt so bad. He had coughed so hard after the medicine and barely drank any of his milk or warm water.

Then things got interesting around 2am when he let out a cry and my husband discovered he had thrown up. He changed him and asked for my help cleaning up the sheets. I changed them and scrubbed the bed and surrounding floor, all the while thinking "OMG how gross..." And "should I be using bleach? Is this the stomach bug norovirus I had just read about?". I knew I needed to help, but I was worried I'd get Zoe sick because of how contagious the stomach bug is. And by that time it was too late to grab gloves so I resorted to washing my hands with all types of soap probably a million times, changed my clothes and washed my face before going back to our bedroom, not sure if any of this would even work to combat a stomach bug.

Elias was a much happier boy come the morning, and even had an appetite. He hadn't throw up since 3am. He and my husband barely slept throughout the night.

Today the doctor said it was likely a mucus throw up because the mucus had no where to go other than up and food came up with it. But of course they said it could also be a 24 hour stomach bug! So far, my husband nor I have had any symptoms. We hope it stays that way! We really don't want Zoe to get it!!

Adding to the chaos, Elias had to stay home from daycare and my husband had a crazy busy day working from home, so we had no choice but to have me and Zoe out in the main area while Elias played.

This all got me thinking, how do you manage to be so sterile with a stomach bug in your house when there are two kids to attend to, clean up after and ensure they don't breathe the smell of Clorox wipes? Ahh... We were so disorganized and I made so many mistakes not even thinking at first, just reacting. How will we deal with the real stomach bug in the future?

Burping Zoe

Zoe is a gassy baby. And she hates having to burp! You know she needs to burp when she kicks and she flails her arms while doing a fussy cry.

She is solely breastfed. At night she receives a large 7 ounce bottle of breast milk and this keep her full until about 2-3am. It takes her almost 45 minutes to an hour to drink the whole bottle! I usually burp her every 10 minutes. Sometimes the burp really doesn't want to come out. That's when I stand up and walk her around,  and she will eventually burp. If that doesn't work, my third resort is to lay her down for 5 minutes and burp her when I pick her up. I don't give her the bottle back until she burps. Sometimes I've waited as long as 10 minutes for a burp, but I know it's coming.

If she doesn't burp often during the bottle she is more likely to keep waking up to burp after the bottle is finished and she has been laid down for sleep. There have been nights where she woke up every 15 to 45 minutes after falling asleep, or just kept crying because she was so uncomfortable. Eventually the waking leads to her being hungry again if it persists for more than three hours. So to prevent all of these wake ups and her requiring another feeding in 3 hours, I try very hard to burp her during the bedtime bottle feeding. This leads her to sleep better and sleep all the way to 2 or 3am, her longest stretch of sleep.

She also tends to spit up a lot of this milk. I have found that burping her more often on the bottle helps to reduce, and in the last few days even eliminate, her spitting up. Some days her spit up got so bad that I needed to change the mattress pad, sheets, her clothes, and my clothes several times. Not to mention I have multiple spit-up stains on our wood floor from random spit ups I didn't even know happened as I was rocking her.

Elias was a gassy baby too. He had more trouble letting out farts and poop. When sleeping he would grunt and groan, kicking his legs until he was 2 months old. He did not spit up or burp nearly as much as Zoe does, so this is new territory for us.

Fake Amazon Reviews

I am huge Amazon shopper, despite some of the negative press Amazon has received over the years, and its dominance over smaller retailers. The convenience and product reviews are the big draw for me. On the rare occasion I go to a store to make a purchase, I usually look for the product on Amazon first or read the many product reviews on Amazon. In a store I am completely unable to make a decision without the power of product reviews. After all, how do I know if it's any good?!

Recently, I've noticed more and more products on Amazon seem untrustworthy. Weird company names, unprofessional product descriptions (with symbols, incorrect grammar, and/or weird phrasing as if the writer is foreign), and the words "sponsored" draw me away. Yet these products get tons of positive reviews. How?!

For example, today I was looking for a musical toy set for my 18 month old. There are SO MANY to choose from. The other day I was looking for a felt Christmas tree for a toddler and had the same experience. How do you sort out the good products when you don't recognize the brands and so many reviews are positive?

Today, I googled my problem and found a website called FakeSpot that has an algorithm that reviews all of the Amazon product reviews per product to tell you if they are "unreliable" (they also do this for Yelp and TripAdvisor). BAM. Just what I needed! So I started searching a lot of my recent purchases to find, to my relief, that many were trustworthy expect one - a face serum that received an F grade for its 1000+ reviews. I immediately started my return on it! I feel so duped - I bought the product based on these positive reviews.

To conclude about my musical toy and felt tree search I mentioned earlier:

This toddler musical toy set has all 5 star reviews, but receives an "F". I plan to add this one to my son's wish list instead. The others sets have good and reliable reviews according to FakeSpot, but the small parts on these toys seem untrustworthy.

The felt Christmas tree I bought has an "A" grade for review quality, even though the description was unprofessional. Phew! I bought it 2 weeks ago because the description and reviewers noted the thicker fabric, even though it was more expensive than other products listed. Fingers crossed it works out when we hang it this weekend...

Maternity Leave - Finances

With Elias I took 12 weeks of maternity leave. With Zoe I took 8 weeks. My decision to go back early was mostly money-driven: I wasn't making money by staying home and we needed to buy a new car to fit our growing family.

The federal government guarantees most mothers (and fathers) will not lose his/her job when taking up to 12 weeks of leave following the birth (or adoption) of their baby under the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA). However, this time is largely unpaid at most companies, mine included.

Many companies, like mine, that do not offer pay for maternity leave have short term disability insurance policies. These policies are paid for by the employer and will pay a qualifying employee a short-term disability benefit based on the disability and the company's percentage pay policy. A vaginal delivery counts as a short-term disability that receives a benefit of 40% pay for 6 weeks. I am not sure what the benefit is for a cesarean delivery. Thus, the first 6 weeks of maternity leave you receive partial pay and the remaining 6 weeks, if you decide to take more time, is unpaid.

There are some nuances to this benefit that likely varies from company to company and policy to policy. For example you need to claim a waiting week before receiving the short-term disability payout. This waiting week is the first 5 days after your delivery. During this time you are not eligible for the benefit and you must take vacation time if you want to get paid. Secondly, many companies force the employee to use his or her vacation time before he/she can go on leave without pay. Thirdly, some short-term disability policies deduct money from your benefit if you have vacation time leftover after the waiting period.

All of this factored into how I took my leave. I decided to use all of my vacation time except for 5 days prior to my delivery. I took my last 5 vacation days immediately after delivery, then claimed the short-term disability benefit, and then went on leave without pay.

To manage, my husband and I cut down on our savings and IRA contributions, mortgage over payments, and overall expenses. Money is tight with an upcoming new car purchase, and two daycare payments starting in late April.

Back at work

Last Monday was my first day back at work since having Zoe. I decided to go back 4 weeks early because the co-worker who filled-in for my role left the company. I didn't have to go back. In fact, I contacted my supervisor. I was offered a work from home all week option until the new year (then I would continue my 2 day/week work from home schedule), and we could use the money because I was not getting paid and we wanted to buy a new car.

I pulled the trigger by calling my supervisor the week before when I was half sure I even wanted to clog up my already busy and comfortable day. But I knew starting Thanksgiving week would be the most ideal. After all, I'd get a paid holiday and a pretty easy week.

The first day back wasn't bad. Except that I found out all the October things weren't done! I needed to produce a few reports and update lots of documentation. There was no real deadline, but I knew our client wouldn't be happy the longer it lapsed.

Working at home with a baby is tough. It's one big juggling act! Though I have some help, largely I am taking every precious minute of her 15 minute naps to make a quick call or update something. When I am feeding her, I am emailing using voice typing. Even that feature, though very convenient, gets annoying when Google doesn't understand you or you get cut off because you've reached the character limit!

And the crying is the worst. When you're rocking her in her carrier while trying to respond to an urgent email saying "Give mama just one more minute." Or during ill-timed conference calls when it's your turn to speak and you're running back and forth between two rooms because you don't want anyone to hear your baby crying. Ackkkk! It's during these times that I feel like the worst mother ever.

And then there are the successes. Of feeding her while on a call and her not making any noise. Or the success of finishing something just as she wakes from a nap or right before she melts down in her chair, mat, or carrier. Or seeing her smiley face as you work, and getting to smile and talk to her. It's these moments that make working from home worth it!

I experienced a lot of these moments over the last week. But many of these moments are also reminiscent of the work from home days when I took care of Elias before he started daycare at 13 months.

My Non-Nappers

The one thing I remember, though vaguely, about Elias' early months is that he did not nap. Yes, you read that right, my son did not nap between 2 and 4 months. Yes, he fell asleep while eating and I'd let him lay there (after burping him), or he'd fall asleep in the carrier as I was doing something, but neither of these types of naps lasted more than 30 minutes. When I tried to feed him and then lay him in the crib, he'd wake just as I laid him down, or 5 minutes later when I got to the kitchen for breakfast/lunch/snack. I went back and rocked him again. And then again. And then again. And then it was time for him to eat because it had been 3 hours since he last started eating.

At about 4 months, I worked really hard to get him to sleep after his lunch feeding. He'd sleep for 45 minutes which turned into an hour then 1.5 hours and eventually he was sleeping 2 or more hours. When I was pregnant with Zoe, I counted down the minutes to this nap because I also wanted to nap. If he woke early, I'd say "sleepy for Mama" through the monitor. If I said it after his first few cries, before he fully woke, he'd go back to sleep and I got more sleep!

Well, Zoe is the same way. As soon as she learned to differentiate day from night, she took the sleeping at night thing too seriously, only sleeping at night. Sometimes I'd spend most of the day rocking her, and she'd fail to sleep for more than 15 minutes at a time. Yes, I prefer her sleeping at night because this means I get sleep during normal sleep hours, but it does make the day so draining. Especially those days after nights when I had trouble falling asleep after laying her down, or when she's woken up multiple times instead of her one wake between 2 and 3am.

Now that she's two months old, my routine is:

First I see when she wakes in the morning. If it's before 7am, I have a CHANCE at getting her to go back to sleep for another solid hour.

If she doesn't go back to sleep, I usually hang out with her, pump, have breakfast, then feed her when she's sleepy and lay her down. Sometimes she falls asleep, and if she does it's only for 30 minutes. At this time I eat lunch, or shower.

The next available time for a nap is after she eats at 12pm. Usually she'll sleep 30 minutes, but by the time I rock her enough times to do this, it's usually 2pm.

From that point, I put her in the carrier and she naps maybe once more between 3 and 4pm, or if the weather is nice and not cold, we go for a walk. During a walk she will nap for one or more hours. This is the best scenario!

Her last breast feeding is at 5pm. She's usually cranky from 5:30pm to 6pm and falling asleep on our shoulders as I get her milk ready. We feed her a 6oz bottle of breast milk at her 6pm bedtime so that my husband and I can alternate which child we put to bed. She's usually sleeping by 8pm.

Ideal time of year to have a child

We are grateful to have two healthy children born 15 months apart. Our oldest born last June, and youngest this September.

Two months postpartum, I have some new found perspective on what time of year is best to have a child. IMHO it's between April and August. Let me tell you why:

1. In our part of Maryland, the school year cut off is September 1st. This means for a child born in September, you will need to pay for almost a whole EXTRA YEAR of child care because you just missed the cut off. I will, of course, try to appeal this given my daughter's birthday and it's proximity to the cut off date. I will update you in 5 years, ha!

2. It is not flu season.

3. The weather is starting to warm or it is already warm/hot, and you can use all of these to your advantage to find a time of day to get out for a walk (AKA exercise for you, nap for baby). All through summer, my son and I went on daily morning or evening walks. I also did this with my daughter, but after Halloween the weather got too cold most days, or I got too lazy because it was colder (read as: below 50).

4. The holidays are not around the corner, so you're more likely to stick to your diet. Having my daughter in September meant that by the time I started counting my calories and seriously watching my eating (at around 6 weeks), I had Halloween, Thanksgiving, my birthday, Christmas, New Year and my husbands birthday to navigate. Of course it's doable, but also hard!

These are all good things to keep in mind for #3 ;p ... that is if we're lucky to be able to conceive for a due date in this short ideal window.

Hello!

I've been meaning to start a blog for a long time. I started reading blogs about 4 years ago when I first got married, but I never knew what to write about or why. I loved reading about the lives of these bloggers beause it gave me ideas for new routines, child care tips, recipies to try, style suggestions and more. Lately, I noticed how these bloggers could easily search their blog to find recipes, memories or photos. This appealed to me because as a millennial I am so used to keyword searching my email to remember a specific date, friend, conversation, vendor, product, etc.

When my little girl was born in September, I found myself not remembering things about the first few months of her older brother's life. My husband tells me this and that was the same with our son, but I don't remember. I do remember the big moments and milestones, though, for how long?

At this point I knew I needed to do something to help me fulfill my desire to remember the day-to-day moments of our lives and keyword search my own memories. I finally had a strong reason to start a blog. So, I came up with a title and here I am!